Give Yourself Time

Starting a business, growing a career, nurturing a family – they all take time. Sometimes we don’t give ourselves enough time. We expect overnight success. And why wouldn’t we? That’s what so often appears on news and social media feeds. Everyone else seems to achieve instant success. But what we don’t see are the days, weeks, months, and years of slow, steady work that adds up to success over a longer arc of time. As I reflect on the first three years since launching my business, The Carrelle Company, the momentum is now more evident and growing. My question for you: what step will you take today to make your dream a reality?

 

What is the Unfilled Need Behind Your Desire to Work So Hard?

James Clear, the author of Atomic Habits posed this question to listeners recently as a guest on Brene Brown’s podcast: what is the unfilled need behind your desire to work so hard?

This powerful question made me pull (swerve) my car to the side of the road when I heard it, so I could write the question down.

It’s one I’ve been pondering for myself. And no doubt I’ll be asking it of some of my coaching clients.

I’m now clear(er) on the answer for me.

How about for you? What’s your answer?

 

What to Do When There’s Too Much to Do

It’s Sunday night. I’m still trying to complete items on my list from last Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday. It would probably take a week, with no new inputs, to work through the backlog and feel “caught up.”

Has this ever happened to you?

And what’s wrong with this picture?

What’s wrong is there’s always more that could be done than there is time available.

That’s why it’s so important to do the highest priority work first. Not getting pulled off track with the the reminder emails pinging endlessly in a variety of inboxes. But focusing instead on the activities that will move your life forward. The actions that over time can make your dreams come true.

This gives a whole new perspective on today. I did the most important and highest priority work. And even if I stayed up all night, I wouldn’t complete everything I wanted to do today.

So it’s time to tidy up my desk, start to wind down, and enjoy the rest of the weekend with a good book.

Tomorrow is a new day.